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36-40,
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writes: Hi Cupids I need help.... I've been dating a wonderful guy, Pete, for 9 months whom I trust and love deeply. We have only ever kissed. I have been at an all girls boarding school for my entire education and have therefore have had virtually no communication or contat with men. Pete who I am currently dating is my first boyfriend and while my family strictly believe in no sex before marriage i disagree i don't follow my religion like my parents do. Anyway I'm ready to take the next step with Pete and have sexual intercourse with him the only thing is i have no idea how to do it. I've never really seen it in films or tv so i'm fairly clueless. I don't want to go rent a porno just to figure it out and my friends follow the same rules as my parents so could any cupids out there give me some advice for my special night. from a one clueless cupid to a cluey... Annabeth.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (18 December 2006):
 i think the first thing before making any moves on your boyfriend, u guys need to discuss the sex issue first find out how he feels about it, if he wants to do it sooner or rather wait this is important for u guys as an open communication is what u both need. if he is feeling that he is ready then u can tell him u are ready as well and u guys can decide on a date to make it special as ur first night.
how its done dont worry about it as it all comes natural. but if he says he wants to wait u can decide to wait for him or move on the main thing here is that u wd have made it clear what u both want in a relationship. but dont make sex a big deal if he is not keen in the idea bcos for u to enjoy it u need someone who adores u as well otherwise it will just be sex and i dont think u want to remember it that empty and that emptiness will stay with u forever. remember relationships are God given gifts unfortunately they dont come with manuals, so trust your insticts and all shall be well. good luck
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