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I'm quite shy - any tips on getting out and meeting people?

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Question - (19 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I'm sick of the boys at my school and I feel like I need to meet new people, but I'm not sure how. I've spent too long waiting for fate, and I want to take matters into my own hands. I'm 18, so legally allowed in pub and bars but its not like I want to go out on the pull! I just want to make some new friends, and see where things go from there.

Any ideas?

Plus I'm quite shy, so any tips on approaching people would help :)

--Heloisa

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntYou seem to be confused about your age here, if you don't mind me saying so. Anyway enough of that.

Meeting guys in pub/clubs is ok, but they are there for one thing and that is to score with the women. By all means go clubbing/pubbing and have fun, but be careful don't fall for the first guy you meet. Get to know them as friends first, have fun, but also know when to draw the line or they will take advantage. There numerous of places to meet guys, go ten pin bowling with your friends, it is great fun and there are plenty of guys that go there. You don't have to sit in a pub and get p*ssed to have fun.

Hope I have been of help. Dusky xxx

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (20 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou could find some part time job during your holidays and you may meet new people at work.

Get out of the house and be in public places where there are a lot of people.

Join your friends in outdoor activities.

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