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I'm pregnant and have just found out my partner has ANOTHER baby!

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Question - (20 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2008)
A female age 41-50, *other2be writes:

My boyfriend and I of almost 7 months have gotten pregnant. This isn't the problem though. After he left his wife September of 07 he immediately began shacking up with this other chick for a little less then 2 months. Well she up and left him without warning or so much as a goodbye. Now he receives an e-mail from her stating she had "A" baby that is 4 months old and thought he should know and sent pics. Doesn't say this kid is yours and even says she doesn't want anything from him. I don't know what to do I am an emotional mess. He wants to check it out without getting a paternity test before hand. Here's the kicker she was still married to her husband while she shacked up with my boyfriend. What should I do? How should I feel? Am I wrong for being upset?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008):

You boyfriend need to take a paternity test before making 'contact' with a child that might or might not be his. By wanting to see the child, he will see the mother and since they already have a history together.... it might not be such a good idea.

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