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writes:Hey Aunts.I have recent gone on a few dates with someone who I met online. I was wondering when to remove my profile from the site, but she got there first and told me she had done so. Great I thought - best go and do the same quick. But as I was going so, her messages to me on the site were still there so I clicked through and her profile was still there - should I trust her...?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2019): Hey aunts, original asker here.
Thanks for your replies.
So I admit I created a fake account to see if hers was still active. The activity slowly crept in to the past (great I thought - maybe she just logged in one last time to check I had removed mine when I said I had - I could understand that given its only been a few dates and she did say someone through the site had lied to her). But then today it showed she had logged in within the past 24 hours :(. Time to ditch or confront her first...?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2019): Nope! She lied, obviously! Give it a couple of weeks and check again. Sometimes sites are slow at removing profiles; and less reputable sites may not remove the pic and profile after deactivating the account. If you see activity, she lied. Take it from there.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 November 2019):
 Did she just change it to inactive?
That way it might still show up.
As far as removing yours, no I wouldn't do that unless you are certain that THIS is a woman you want to date and things are exclusive.
SHE can CHOOSE to make hers inactive or take it down, up to her, but you DO it on YOUR time.
Also, you can ASK her. Since you received a message it seemed a little strange if she had removed hers. If you can't ASK thing like this yet, maybe you just don't know her that well.
I wouldn't just to the conclusion that she isn't trustworthy.
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