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anonymous
writes: hi, i have been seeing my bf for 10 months now, i love him so much and dont want to lose him but i seem to be quite mean to him alot.we cant get along and im not even sure i love him? yet i cant bear to lose him! is this love? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Ears4tears +, writes (3 September 2007):
I would advise you to read your letter again huni, i believe you have answered your own question you have quite clearly said in your own words " i love him so much" all you have to decide is whether you are IN love with this guy or is he simply a good friend. I think your mean to him because your afraid of getting hurt yourself and that maybe the reason you are having problems getting on. Try relaxing abit more and maybe dropping your guard alittle and hopefully things will pick up, if it doesnt dont be down hearted it just wasnt ment to be
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (3 September 2007):
I think you are unsure if you love this guy, because in one sentence you say " I love him so much and don't want to lose him " then you finish it of with " im not even sure i love him ".
The only person that knows if this is love or not is you. When your in love its the most wonderful feeling in the whole world. They are on your mind from when you wake right till your head hits the pillow at night. You can't get enough of them and you get butterflies racing round in your tummy. If any of this applies to you then yes this is love.
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