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writes: Hi, Im stuck in a situation, here goes...... Started my college course a good few months ago and i was really good friends with this guy, we chatted and texted all the time, sat beside each other and flirted on nites out and got close a few times - although nothing did happen. I began to fancy him and from the signs i thought the same ... so i asked him if he wanted to meet up some time... but it backfired!I didnt see him for a while and reassured me that things would be normal.... and that he would probably regrete turning me down! Now months later things are so cold, he sometimes texts me on odd occassions but when i reply i never get a reply and he basically blankes me at college, or says hi very quickly and thats it... but we had sooo much chemistry! Whats happened? I cant help thinking he does still like me a bit but is just being akward about it....Claire
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (6 February 2006):
 Forget him, life is too short to worry about what may happen, just move on and meet lots of new blokes at college, he is wasting your time as he cannot make up his mind to go out with you or not, so make it up for him.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (6 February 2006):
 Possibly, he is afraid that because you two had so much chemistry there will be a lot of pressure to have a perfect relationship, maybe he is scared that he will let you down or hurt you in some way. Rather than taking this as a rejection, try to see it as this guy thought enough of you to not let you down. Perhaps you could tell him that you understand that he does not want to be in a relationship with you right now, but you would like to get your friendship back the way it was, reassure him that there will be no pressure to have a relationship. Good luck.
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