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writes: My girlfriend split up with me about 7 months ago, after an intense relationship that lasted for 5 and a half years in which we lived together for all of that time. She also happens to be my best friend (soulmate) and has been for the last 12 years since we met at school sixth form. When we first split up, I was really angry and upset and things have spiralled out of control to the point that we no longer live together, and rarely see each other anymore. However, recently we have started talking again, and I have realised that I am not over her at all, and I really love and miss her, and cannot stop thinking about her. She is now seeing somebody else in a kind-of long distance relationship, but I really want her back, and I no longer know how to cope with this situation. I am really depressed and can't stop thinking about her and dwelling on the times that we had together. I have tried to tell her how I feel (though in text message form) and have had nothing back from her. Her friends say that she is apparantly happy with her new man, though I do not believe this, and when I do see her, I do not get this impression. I guess this isn't really a question, but I am in serious need of good advice. Should I risk torturing myself further by talking to her about my feelings, or should I just move on? I have tried to meet other women but I don't seem to be that enthusiastic about this. I guess this all stems from the fact that I believe her to be 'the one' and am finding it impossible to get on with my life without her. Please help!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 November 2005):
 Sorry but I think you are just wasting your time. Stay busy and keep meeting other women. You'll find one that will make this exgirlfriend just a dim memory. Happens all the time.
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