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writes: I feel very miserable, I can't seem to make any friends at college. I am always ignored, nobody asks me to go out to luch with them, I feel very lonley at college. Sometimes I have to do the asking, if I want to go out with them its very rarely they acknowledge me also i'm finding it diffifuclt to make friends where I am living too. I'm thniking of leaving the area I am living in as I'm too lonely and isoloated and it's turning me into a soacial inadequate.Please help!! Thanks cheers Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2006): hey honey, sometime life gets a little lonley, and we can lie down and take it. im having a blue day today, but i know ive gotta make an effort to make poals too, you are doing the right thing by asking your college pals do they want to do something, keep it up. go smile and some new people, say hi to a cute guy, or girl you like, ask someone in the store what they think of this brand of washing powder, in other words, dont give up, there is someone out there for all of us, wishing you hope in finding them
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2006): it sounds to me that its not the place you live that is the problem.It sounds like u may have self esteem or confidence problems.I have a similar problem and i believe that its the way we think,and portray ourselves.as u probably know u can spot a confident person a mile away.if you have an interest join a club.and go out of your way to be sociable.However if u left would u feel more isolated its not always the answer.But if u really feel that this is not the case and moving would be the solution then go for it and good luck but if you can try and think differently dont shy away all the best xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2006): Yes leaving and starting a life elsewhere may a good opportunity to find your 'place' in this world. Excellent choice really. Also, I am sure you know this already, try joining some clubs and events at school.
Random thought: If you're an artist, you can create your own pieces, and have them displayed in an art gallery. You could meet like-minded people from that.
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