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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I am a married woman of 4 years and I have a major problem at work, The head of my department at work is a very attractive 31 year old woman and I can't get her out of my head. I pecked her on the cheek as a thank you for helping me and she was fine with it. She alters my rota so I do the jobs I enjoy and enjoys a laugh with me. She got upset with me a few weeks ago and wouldn't talk to me a friend said it was because she was worried I had feelings for her which I dennied and she has been ok eversince. The thing is when I look at her and she smiles I feel there is a spark. I do not know if she is straight or not she is single.. What can I do.
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reader, Transmitter_Girl +, writes (18 May 2008):
Thanks for the advice so far I am so confused. It isn't just a crush been there and done that, this is different. We've been quite friendly the last couple of weeks and I am struggling to cope at work. Any other advice PLEASE
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): Go for it - there are millions of jobs out there, but good sex is rare. Explore your options with this one and you might find out quite a bit about yourself. Enjoy!
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reader, lexilou +, writes (5 May 2008):
It is a crush just like you might get on a bloke. Leave it that - you would be so embarassed if this blew up in your face so se it for what it is. And yes it is perfectly normal to get a crush on a woman!!! x
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