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30-35,
*kir
writes:Ok so it's coming up to the 6 month Mark of my relationship, and I'm just not feeling it with her anymore. What first attracted me to her wa that she is really nice and sweet. But I think we don't have a lot in common. As time goes on I find myself getting more interested in my friend. The only time to feel connected to my girlfiend anymore is in the afterglow of having sex which isnt that often between us anymore. I always have to make the decision on when and where we go out because she is skews happy staying in an I'm bored of it. What I need help with is this, is it time for me to let her go and fin someone more suited for her or is tree something we can try because ive spoken to her about going out more and he just said ok and nothing has changed and this was a month ago.I do still feel something for her and dealt don't way to upset such a nice person but I feel this relationship may have run it's course. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): If you have already spoken to her about this, then there is nothing more you can do, when we are young our personalities, likes and dislikes change all the time. We change all the time, so yes I think it has run its course.
tell her this out straight. That you have nothing in common anymore, it happens. Its important that you reassure her its not her fault and nothing she did or didnt do.
However once you have made this decision it should be final, minimal contact and no sleeping with eachother because that would not be fair to her, if you want to break it off you will need to let her go and allow her time to get over the break up.
Good Luck.x
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (25 May 2011):
 Hi
I think your right here, I think it's run it's course.
it's early day's in the relationship, so you should both still be on a high about it if your meant to be together. However if you want to try one last time, then tell her straight, say look I want to be with you but I get the feeling your just not interested in us any more, this should give her the kick up the bum she needs to put that spark back. If not then you have your answer. It's nice that you are putting her first as many guys dont. But if it's not there then its not there
xx
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