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writes: I dont know what to do. Me and my cousins wife have developed feelings for each other and she says she only with him because of her kids, and he threatens to take the kids away from her if she leaves him, he even tells her she can leave anytime if she wants because all he wants is the kids and not her.Everyday we talk online and i dont know what to do she says she wants us to be together, but says she has to wait for her kids to get bigger, because they are still small. We both love each other everyday she says how she wants to leave and be with me but she cant as yet because of the kids. She tells me that she wants to be with me everyday and that she loves me and lost all the feeling she had for my cousin long time ago and i love her so much i dont know whats happening to me, she says she wants to leave him soon. please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): I am in the same situation except that I am her.I think if you guys really love each other you should be honest with her and tell her that you would be there for her and the kids maybe she is scared for the kids security.You only live once I hope, you should never give up on true love because you might not ever get the chance again.Why live unhappy?As far as you family goes they should understand that you are better for her and they will get over it sooner or later.I on the other hand cant do anything because like you he is more scared of what his family would say or think, that he is willing to give up the person that loves him the most and ever will. funny huh?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis is been going on for 5 months now. I am 26 and she is 32 and my cousin doesnt know every day she would phone or meet up when he gone out just to spend time with me we would talk and hug for hours and i would be there to comfort her. I really have fallen in love her a lot and i get along with the kids really well they are very fond of me.I want to be with her but i really dont know how my family would react. I think they wouldn't speak with me ever again. Another thing is she doesnt know what to do she tells me she want to be there for her kids and she needs me but my cousin (her husband) said if she leaves he would take the kids cause he doesnt really want her she tells me how he forces her to do things when she doesnt want to. I remember talking to my cousin before i met his wife and he even told me himself that he doesnt really like her that he only wants the kids. So right now she is living in his house and she dont know what to do, i want to be with her but im not sure of what to do im so scared!
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