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writes:hey im 15 years old and im in love with my first cousin shes 13. me and her get along really good and she does not know that i love her and its hard i want to tell her but cant. i'm worred cause she might not talk to me or she might tell my mom or her mom. help please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2011): Thanks man but it still love her ok but im not going to tell her
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reader, Linton +, writes (25 August 2011):
I can't give advice. But I have some information for you to balance some of the advice you might get. Go to Sciencemag.org and spend a few bucks buyingAn Association Between Kinship And Fertility of Human Couples. Agnar Helgason, Snaebjoern Palsson, Daniel F. Guobjartsson, Pordur Kristjansson and Karl Stefanson, SCIENCE vol 329 8 February 2008 page 813It turns out that kinship is like everything else. You can have too much and you can have to little. I think you will find it interesting. Tuck it away until you think you are closer to marrying age. At lest it will give you something to read. Meanwhile enjoy youth. It doesn't last long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011): Please do not do anything.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (24 August 2011):
 if you get on really well i don't think you should ruin things by professing your love for her. if she does not feel the same things will just get uncomfortable for you,maybe you won't get on the same as you do now.
there are plenty of other girls you could date. i cannot imagine your family would be happy if you two became a couple. although it is not illegal, if you ever did get together and wanted to have children there is a good chance your kids could have serious birth defects, as you and her share too much of the same DNA. you would be better not getting involved with her for this reason, look outside of your family for a girlfriend
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (24 August 2011):
You don't love her. You have a close bond with her, because she is your family. Don't confuse being in love with someone, with feeling a connection with someone. You would be making a big mistake by confessing your feelings to her. She is too young to handle something like that, and there will certainly be uncomfortable consequences for you.You should spend less time with her, and instead spend more time with your friends, and other girls. I am sure given the chance, you will find yourself attracted to someone you can have a real relationship with.
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