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writes: Hi guys,so i have a bit of a dilemma.well i met this guy online about 5 months ago now.and we've been in constant contact and been getting on really well and so far really like each other.we havent been able to meet because he lives quite a distance away and iv been busy with my studies and he works full time.but he has been holding out for me and sometimes i feel so guilty that hes waiting for me and has put his lovelife on hold for me.well basically we were meant to be meeting in 3 weeks time. but since we decided that iv started to really doubt it could work between us and im thinking of having a talk with him about breaking things off between us.thing is i dont want him to feel like a fool for waiting for me. and i dont want him to feel like i was just messing him about because i wasnt. i genuinely liked him and wanted it to work.i dont know what to do now. should i meet him anyway then decide or just tell him now?please help guys. im so scared of hurting him.. hes a really emotional and sensitive guy.thank youxx. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 January 2012):
I would break it off now, before you meet up and possibly get more involved.
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