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I'm having second thoughts about meeting this online guy

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Question - (7 January 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi guys,

so i have a bit of a dilemma.

well i met this guy online about 5 months ago now.

and we've been in constant contact and been getting on really well and so far really like each other.

we havent been able to meet because he lives quite a distance away and iv been busy with my studies and he works full time.

but he has been holding out for me and sometimes i feel so guilty that hes waiting for me and has put his lovelife on hold for me.

well basically we were meant to be meeting in 3 weeks time.

but since we decided that iv started to really doubt it could work between us and im thinking of having a talk with him about breaking things off between us.

thing is i dont want him to feel like a fool for waiting for me. and i dont want him to feel like i was just messing him about because i wasnt. i genuinely liked him and wanted it to work.

i dont know what to do now. should i meet him anyway then decide or just tell him now?

please help guys. im so scared of hurting him.. hes a really emotional and sensitive guy.

thank you

xx.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (7 January 2012):

Honeypie agony auntI would break it off now, before you meet up and possibly get more involved.

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