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writes:okay, well first off i am only 14 years old, my ex thinks that i am 15... we had sex a week ago like April 14th and we did not use a condom. i have birth control but i had forgotten to take it the friday before we had sex and i didnt take it until late saturday night After we had sex. After we had sex, around 3:30 A.M sunday morning i woke up with my stomach hurting pretty bad.. i went to go do the deed in the bathroom, but it didnt help.. and its been about a week and a half and im still having pains and feeling dizzy and having hot and cold spells and my back hurts more often. and im hungry alot more.. again, we did not use a condom... and he came right near my clit and i couldnt clean it off until the next day... could i be pregnant???PLEASE HELP...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): I would sy that is highly likely that you have a urinary tract infection, all the symptoms you have described are symptoms of a urinary tract infection. And due to the fact that you didn't go to the toilet straight after sex that increased your chance of getting an infection.
You need to go the doctor and get yourself some antibiotics, while you are there i would recomend that you get tested to see if you are pregnant,and also get checked for any STDs. Having sex without a condom is very dangerous not just because you can get pregnant but because you can catch some horrible sexually transmitted diseases which could effect your for the rest of your life.
You are very young so next time if you feel you really are old enough and mature enough to have sex then be responsible and use a condom as well as taking your birth control pills correctly. Goodluck don't panic yet as i don't think these symptoms are caused by you being pregnant (not that it isn't a possibility you could be pregnant but you most likely wouldn't be experiencing any symptoms yet) I hope this has taught you never to dice with pregnancy again.
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reader, mcbirdie  +, writes (26 April 2007):
 First, it makes sense to go see a doctor. It is unlikely that you are pregnant--it is harder to get pregnant from semen on your outer genital area (though, still possible, so you should be on regular birth control if you practice this form of sex)--and certainly you are not experiencing the symptoms of pregnancy. One does not get a sore stomach on the night of conception. More likely than not you are stressing out and that is causing you to feel ill. Or, you have an infection of some sort. I don't know how often you have sex, but if you are regularly doing it without condoms, I would not think a urinary tract infection or similar would be out of line to consider.
Next, however, you need to sort out your birth control issues. I have no idea what form of birth control you think you needed to take right before sex--unless you have a diaphragm which needs to be inserted. If you are on the Pill, you should be taking that every day at the same time. If you just started the Pill, you should not have unprotected sex until seven days after you start.
Your entire question, though, makes me think you should take some time to consider why you are having sex and whether you want to continue to do so for the time being. The fact that you are lying to boys about your age and not understanding the mechanics of sex, nor how to talk to your partner (Why not ask him to wear a condom? Or ask him to not come on you? And why couldn't you wash up whenever you wanted to?), makes me think you have started doing things you're not ready for.
Sex is a wonderful thing, especially between two people who know what they are doing and care about each other. Sex is a horrible thing if you don't know what you're doing or how to enjoy it sensibly. You do not need this much stress from a five minute fumble with a boy who is now your ex. It gets a lot more fun when you get a little more knowledge and confidence under your belt, trust me.
Best of luck.
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