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writes: dear cupid, robert and i were best friends for two and a half years. i decided i wanted to be more he had been wanting that for a while but didn't what he wanted right now(there was another girl) i waited for four months said i couldn't do this he begged me to stay we dated for two months he left me we didn't talk for three months for the last four months weve been texting and emailing and decided he wants to work things out its a maybe on my end but we will see each other i gave him one more chance and he blew off our date. we were supposed to hang out on a sunday he got drunk and stayed at a friends house saturday night and texted me good morning and he would text me later( for a meeting time) and about eight i texted him and told him it was okay it was getting late and he said are you sure? is that a serious answer? i said yeah you don't have to worry about it i shouldn't have tried to make you spend time with me and he said i want to spend time with you. im getting sick of his games and back and fourth what do i do? what does this mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): He sounds as though hes just messing you about at the moment. I think you should sit down and say to him that you are getting hurt by his games and he needs to decide what he wants.
Hopefully he will say that he wants to date you and it will work out but I think that the key is to just talk to him. If he doesnt listen to you just accept that he is not being sensitive towards your feelings and he is not that great a guy.
hope it all works out for the best
xx
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