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anonymous
writes:I have a big problem about fitting in but not the type Im weird fitting in. The problem is that I'm gay but know one knows about me except for a few friends at school. I feel that no one should know about me unless you ask or figure it out yourself. See I have no one to talk to that understands being gay and talk about relationships. Since no one knows about me my family and people who aren't close friends always try to fix me up with girls and pressure me into relationships and it really makes me so angry. I try to say I don't like them but they keep them coming. I know it sounds like I should tell them but I don't want no one to know my business because it's my life and I shouldn't have to tell if I don't want to. But I have no one I can actually talk to because no one understands me. See I'm 17 and will be 18 soon and when I go to college I hope to find some masculine gay friends that can understand me because I really need someone to talk to and understand me. I need some advice on how to deal with this situation. Does anyone know how I should deal with this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (7 August 2011):
 I understand your frustration with people trying to set you up with girls but try to keep in mind that they are coming from a good place with their intentions and not meaning to be annoying. They probably think they are helping. You will have to be a bit blunt I think and say look thanks for the thought but I really really don't want a relationship yet I want to enjoy school and friends and wait till I find someone really special. Please DONT set me up on anymore dates.
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