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*honey
writes:I am in a new relationship after being divorced 2 years. I really like this new man in my life.... been dating about 3 weeks. we have alot in common and love spending time together. I think hes holding somethings back from me and i dont know what to do. he did tell me a few days ago that he had been seeing someone but that it was nothing sexual and that she just wont leave him alone even after he told her he was seeing me... so i do give him some credit there for telling me, and maybe thats what i am seeing when i think theres something going on. I am really starting to develop feelings for him but am afraid to say to him as i am not sure whats going on.I dont want to do or say anything that could cause me to loose him. we really do enjoy each others company and love the being with each other. maybe i am just paranoid... please someone help any and all advice welcomed... thank you
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reader, Khoney +, writes (23 September 2012):
Khoney is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok just an update on this..... I knew there was something wrong.... HES MARRIED.... sometime even in a new relationship when you feel something is wrong there just might be... i wasnt trying to rush or jump into a full time relationship in 3 weeks but i knew there was something going on here...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2012): Im sorry but I don't thinking your ready for a relationship yet. Its only been three weeks and you are talking like you have been in the relationship for a while. I believe at this point, he can be friends with this lady. Its too soon to even know if you really want to be with this guy. You just simply enjoy his company. Slow down. Don't put all your eggs in one basket right now. Enjoy dating and your freedom. Good luck.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (16 September 2012):
 Its only three weeks, thats a mere 21 days, for some its not even a pay cycle, such a short period of time .... settle, you haven't even had time to really know each other yet, its probably even too soon for the honeymoon stage.
don't rush things, don't push things, take your time to really get to know him properly, you are both still on your very best behaviour, just relax and enjoy going out with him for now, and let the rest develop in its own true time.
Don't rush this!
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