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writes:hi i have been down in the dumps for the last couple of days im young and wait il start from the start i was friends with this boy for year or 2 and i told him that i like him and it turns out he liked me to so we went on a few dates well lots and he eventually asked me out so we were goin ou and it was all good we had sex and im very young but i dont regret it because i wanted him to be my first and the thing is im in love with him but anyways he broke up wit me yesterday he said he doesn't love me the way he used to and the thing is im in love with him and i don't think i can live with myself if i lost him. when we broke up i fell to the ground in tears my body started to over heat nd i suddenly felt sick like getting sick i have never felt like that before and i havn't stopped crying since i have been up all night i cant sleep or nothing. i want him back i need him back i love him and i have told him that all he said was ok sp please i need him back any ideas on how to get him back???thanks xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): ok thanks very much for your help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): If all he said was OK, when your heart was breaking and you were pouring your emotions out to him, then it is quite clear that he doesnt give a damn about how you feel. He doesnt care about your pain and he doesnt love you. Could you let someone you love break to pieces in front of you? I didnt think so. I hate to sound harsh but you are pining after an ass hole - yes we have all done it (myself included) but you need a reality check. It is quite possible he felt for you before, but right now there is nothing left. Leave the boy alone because he will only get more nasty and cold towards you because you want him to be someone he is not. I know you thought/currently still think he is your knight in shining armour but the fact is, he is not, otherwise he wouldnt be causing you this heart break. He may have done things which were sweet and tender before, but the fact that he can walk away now means that those gestures should be considered null and void. Time changes things and he no longer wants to be with you. I am very sorry to sounds so harsh, you are probably a beautiful, clever, kind young lady. But having been through something similar I need to tell u to move on, the quicker the better. We cant give our hearts to people who dont derserve them. Focus on the horrible stuff he has done to you. Don't slip into the habit of thinking about nice things he's done cause they are over. But dont you worry for a second cause you are young and there are sooooooo many more (sexier, smarter, richer, kinder) guys for you to explore. I know it hurts but be strong and for the moment ust hang around with friends and family so you dont feel the need to contact him/see him anymore. Take care hunny, and let the loser go. x
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