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writes: I'm single, 20, and slightly confused about my sexuality.I fancy one particular guy, but would never admit to it to anyone but myself, but I still chat upgirls.Some men are considered sexy by me, but girls are still seen as sexy.I've got enough selfrespect not to sleep around.how will i know?? i already get gay insults because i havent got a girlfriend."A" Reply to this Question
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reader, broken_in _2 +, writes (20 June 2006):
 Hey I had the same problem. If you are confused just try dating around no strings attached. Make sure though that you tell the guys that your dating that your still trying to figure your sexuality out. Who knows you might be bi where you like both. But try the dating idea, it worked for me mabe it will work for you.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (19 June 2006):
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Hi sweetie well firstly i can fully understand your confusion and i'm so glad you have the sense not to sleep around.. :o) well maybe your just biosexual and find both sexes attractive, there is completely nothing wrong with that all what truely matters is that you are happy with the person you are stop beating yourself up here and giving yourself such a hard time nobody of any importance will think of you as a saddo cause your single? so what babe you enjoy the single life date both man and women see which you prefer have some fun experiment! you have nothing to prove to anyone your only true goal in life is to except you are who you are and be happy with it.. if it helps i think you sound great :o) to coin a phrase don't let the ........ idiots get you down life is just to short go out have some fun yeah....
I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation babe and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): Im a gay man and speaking from my past it is no different to what you are going through now.When i was your age i went through the same thing.I went out with a few girls to see if it was for me but i figured it wasnt.I also had the questions why havent you got a girlfriend why are you still single etc.Looking back i wasted so much of my life.I kept myself single from 20-27 mainly because i couldnt accept my sexuality,eventually i came to terms with who i am and have been happy ever since im in a good relationship with my fella.Please dont waste your life away like i did and whatever your prefrence is be happy with it and dont judge yourself like i did good luck.
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reader, answerallthetym +, writes (19 June 2006):
Right!!No wonder your confused id be the same in your position.! Maybe if you try going out on a date with a girl and see how your feelings are after the date. You never know things can change and if you seem to not have changed after a date then maybe its time to think about how this is going to go. Maybe men are more appealing for you and if thats the deal then thats fine nobody can judge you but your self. Being gay isnt a bad thing its just a diffrent way of living.!
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