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writes:ive started seeing this guy who i really like. I stay over his place alot and on 2 occasions now I have bled after sex with him. This is because I come on my period when I didnt realise I was about to come on. The first time, it was ok. The sheets had blood on I just said sorry I didnt realise and he was fine, even tho I was a bit embarressed. Anyway, it happened again lastnite but this time it was unexpected cos my period came a week early. There was loads of blood and this time I was very embarressed. Again he said dont worry, but I could sense that he felt uncomfortable cos I was embaressed. Anyway, how can I get over this embarressment? And stop it happening again? I feel dirty even tho it wasnt my fault. Im scared he has gone off me too. Has this happened to anyone else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): Why does my period come everytime as soon as i'm finish having sex with my husband? Is it because I'm on the Depo Provera?....Is it that my husband is sleeping with someone else?....What is it?????....and it's annoying not to mention embarassing.....It sometimes comes During intercourse...like my water just broke o something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): I have the very same problem! It happens everytime, and it's not because he's rough or anything. It makes me so mad sometimes because it'll come so fast, it almost feels like I'm pregnant and my water just broke! I always just thought no one else has this problem and maybe it's just all in my head.
I also thought it could've been because I'm on Depo Provera.
I haven't bothered asking the doctor because it seems so embarassing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): Hi, i have the same problem! i don't know what it is. everytime i have sex my period starts straight after even if im not due it! i need help to lol! i think the best idea would be to go to the doctor and find out for sure what's happening! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): Going by the number of replies to this question, no, no one has gone through this.
Twice?! After how many?! I've done some research and couldn't find anything particularly useful - nor interesting, nor simple - so I recommend you see your doctor and see if there is a problem or something that could be prevented.
It is unlikely, but it might help. I suggest you also say to your boyfriend that your seeing a doctor just to let him know that it isn't normal and that you are embarrassed by it.
Also, is he your first sexual partner?! Because if he isn't and it hasn't happened with different partners, it could just be a era that your going through.
But, since I am totally unsure, ask your doctor.
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