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writes:i am in a bit of a predicament i really like this lad that i slept with but there are a few problems: 1. he has a girlfriend and a child with her. i woz telling him about my break up about 2months ago and he sed that he knew exactly wot i meant wen i sed that i loved my ex to whom i also hav a child with but im just not in love with him any more. i do feel guilty on his girlfriend even more so since he had told me that he had never cheated on her before untill me. 2. me an his brother hav a history together i was his brothers first sexual partner and he knows this. he got my number and we hav been texting since it happened but im just really confused but i do know that i like him alot i just dont know wot to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): I think that you should at least consider backing of a bit. He has a kid with the other girl so it's not like you're just breaking a little relationship here, you're breaking a family. This is a situation where you really need to be selfless and consider the other person's feeling before making your decision and I think if you do this, you will very quickly realize that telling him that you don't want a sexual relationship with him is the best thing for everyone involved. Although this may not be ideal for you, its the right thing to do.
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