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writes:i am bi and my best friend dose not know i'm bi i would love to have sex with him but i don't know how to bring it up to him. i know he is not gay he will say man that so gay or ya your not gay but i can't tell if that is just a coverup or not. i don't know how to tell him we are liveng together now and i don't know if i could live with him if he said hell no i would be so embarassed and could never talk to him
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reader, gaffer59  +, writes (7 September 2009):
Hugely risky, especially if practically speaking, you need him as a flatmate. If you speak your heart and he's greatly uncomfortable, he may flat out leave. On the other hand, if he's offended, he may continue to live with you, but be hostile, whether aggressively or passive-aggressively. If he feels what you do, it's smooth sailing! I don't know what to advise you, other than if you can't afford to risk losing a flatmate, or risk turning your home life into hell, then maybe you should slow down? Give him periodic hints until he asks if you're coming on to him. That way you'll have the ability, based upon his reaction, to deny your feelings, or to ask, "so what if I am?"GOod luck!
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