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writes:So there is this boy I liked and we talked a bit in school. He wasn't rude to me or anything but he was very flirty with all the girls. He's really attractive and a lot of girls liked him. I have learned that we have a lot in common and I'm still interested in him. In high school, I got a friend of mine to ask him about me. She told me he quickly responded with my name when she asked "guess who likes you." When she asked how did he know he said because of "how I acted around him." Prom was coming up and so she suggested he ask me and he said “I would go out with her, but I won't". He took a date to prom and when we were in line to take pictures he shouted “hey” across the room to me with his date standing right there. At school the next week people made a big deal out of how I danced so well because I was usually so reserved. He seemed shocked and asked a lot of questions about me, but to the other classmates, with me sitting right there. He kept staring at me, actually staring, really hard. Like when I was on a computer and he stood a few feet away in front of me staring. He didn't speak to me again except to ask out load, "what do you do for fun when you go home? Write books?" because I love reading, etc. That hurt my feelings because everyone laughed. I didn’t say anything to him the rest of the year.He's kind of a friend to my nephew and he knows we're related but my nephew has never mentioned that he asks about me or anything. My nephew has all of our family pictures on Facebook and I don't have a profile to contact him myself.The phrase "I would go out with her, but I won't" really confused and hurt me. To this day I don't understand. Should I just ask about it or leave the situation alone and move on? I don't understand the staring and questioning or why he was nice to me at first, and then stopped. I've never liked any boy as much as him and as weird as it sounds I even dream of him and me together, constantly. We don’t talk in the dreams just me or him coming up to the other person and kissing or hugging. It has been two years out of high school and I have never thought of or liked any guy as much as him.Any thoughts or opinions? If I run into him or anything (and if he talks to me or even remembers me) should I even bring it up? Ignore him? I'm afraid of being made fun of or hurt, but the situation bugs me all the time. I feel bad because I’m basically stalking him on his web profiles but I’m afraid to contact him myself and I don’t know how to get in touch with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): Hi, I'm the original poster. Well, I contacted him and told him the story and while I was telling him he said he was trying to remember it all. He said he was sorry and that I'm a beautiful girl and that he's shy sometimes. Who knows what will happen next? Thanks for the advice!
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reader, Duckiies +, writes (18 August 2010):
 Okay, I am guessing you confuse about your feelings for him.In my opinion you should just talk to him again. Plain and simple. Just do what seems right. You need to relax and have more confidence.
I liked a girl, but unsure she likes me.. I STILL will try something to get her to talk to me or date me. In reality she does like me, but unsure with her feeling for me. And now we are dating. I ask her why didnt you wanted to date me and she said " uhhh i dont know you dont seem like a bf material and always independent with your studies, but i clearly made the right choice to go out with you(smiles)"
JUST GO FOR IT, WE ONLY LIVE ONCE.
If you see him again, Don't Ignore him period. You can handle this.Be yourself and smile a lot. Make him feel special. In time he will come around and show you how he really feel. Worst come to worst you won't you probably just be friends. WHo cares there more guys out there. like asian guys (:
P.S If you are stalking him on hes facebook, I think its cute. I do that sometimes if really like this girl or thinks shes cute
BEST OF LUCK. DUCKIIE
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reader, H-Mae-C +, writes (18 August 2010):
Well if it's been two years and he has stopped staring and asking questions then u should prolly move on. That's only my opinion though , so think about the good things and bad things that could happen before deciding
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