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male
age
26-29,
*ampi White
writes: i love one of my Bursar but i fear telling her fearing suspension what can i do and how can i tell her that I'm in love with her without being suspended I'm a student
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2019): Ride-out the crush. It's like a cold, you'll get over it.
Practice what they call "self-control." Master your impulses, and check your feelings! It's being a civilized and responsible adult-male.
She doesn't need to know how you feel about her, if she doesn't share or reciprocate your feelings. There is no ongoing consensual romantic-relationship; so surprising her out of nowhere won't suddenly make her feel the same for you! Not to mention the ethical issues involved.
Slow your roll, dude!
Not only might you get suspended; but your boldness may frighten her as well.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2019): You don't. You're putting her in an impossible situation if you do that. Even if she liked you (and there is no information here to suggest she does) there's nothing she can do about it.
If you really must confess your feelings wait until you are no longer a student .
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2019): You do not love your teacher. You may be infatuated with her but it's not love. The best thing you can do is try and distance yourself from her and forget about her. Find other friends and activities to occupy your thoughts.
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