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writes: hey everyone, i'm a 15 year old guy am i had a problem with my ex-girlfriend. she said she dumped me because i couldn't ever be serious and i was always saying something funny. now that i look back i think it was this way, but i'm not sure if she was just weird or i'm actually not boyfriend material because of this. what are some things that i can say that are serious when i'm just talking to a girlfriend? thanks!
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reader, gandalf55555  +, writes (11 June 2007):
Look if a girl wants a serious relationship with you, you have to know what that's gonna involve. Sure being funny is a great thing to have in a relationship, but you also need to know when to stop joking around. If she wants a serious conversation, listen to her and talk to her properly, don't make any stupid jokes or comments. and also, if you are willing to be in a serious relationship with her, tell her you love her all the time. Tell her whenever you see her. Tell her right before hanging up at the end of a call on the phone. Tell her in front of your friends to show her you're not embarrassed to be with her. Now this may seem a lot to take on board at first, but if you really like this girl then isn't it worth it? Now if you want her back, talk to her privately, tell her you're sorry for not taking your relationship seriously, and tell her that you really like her and want to give it a go. and try not to joke ALL the time. but don't get me wrong, being able to make your girlfriend laugh is a great thing.
Best of luck. Hope it all goes well.
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reader, badger  +, writes (11 June 2007):
Hi,
Please don't try changing your personality to suit girls - believe me it won't work. First you're too young to be serious (plenty of time for that later)and being funny is hardly a negative trait !
Relax and move on and most importantly be yourself.
best of luck
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