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writes:Ok, so I really need to get this off of my chest because it's been on my mind constantly for the last couple of days. I'm 20 years old. I have this teacher assistant in my english class which I really believe is gay because the way he talks and plus I have lots of gay friends, so I know them when I see them. Every time I would look at him, he's starring right at me then I hurry and look away because it just feels awkward. Every time our class would get into groups of 4, he's always drawn to whatever group I'm in and he'll just stand behind me and say "I'm just listening." And when I'm being quite in a group, he'll ask me what do I think about the topic. I first thought it was very annoying how he always comes around me but now I honestly think he has a thing for me. He would wave at me and ask me how I am doing and he always tell me to have a nice day at the end of every class. But now, I'm starting to like the attention he's giving me and I'm starting to develop feelings for him and he's all I freaking think about now. But the thing is, I'm like 98% positive that he's gay and I really don't know if it's right to have feelings for him. I'm not for sure if he's gay or not but all I do know is that I don't want to get hurt. How can I move on and stop having these feelings for him?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 October 2010):
 Ok well some straight guys can be quite feminine so maybe he is not gay, or else you might be right and he just likes you as a person, either way though its wrong to try anything on as he is your teacher and he could lose his job and reputation if anything happened with you, its a line no teacher can cross as am sure you are aware of. I know it is hard but try and get him out of your head when you find yourself thinking about him try and distract yourself and when you are in your english class try and stay as far away from him as possible, if it turns out he does like you then you can always wait until after you graduate and then see where things will go. Good Luck.
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