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I'm 21 and dont seem to have finished puberty! My doctor just thinks im shy about my penis size, but its more than that! Can anyone help ?

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Question - (13 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello everyone,

I'm 21 and generally a happy guy. I just have a big problem that has now been getting me down for years. I seem to just not be able to finish puberty. I'm baby faced, I can't grow a beard (everyone else in my family could from a young age), I don't have much body hair, I have very small nipples and my penis has small girth. I started puberty at the same time as everyone else but everyone has overtaken me by miles. I've gone to two doctors about this but they seem to presume that I am just lacking confidence in the size of my penis and don't really seem to offer any solution because I have started puberty. But penis length is not really the problem. It's just that it is thin and my foreskin will often pop back up during sex. Am I just never going to develop 'fully' or do I have to continue waiting - in which case is there anything (maybe like supplementary testosterone) which my doctor might be able to give me to speed the process up?

Please help. This is really getting me down. Thanks :)

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A male reader, Royofthe Rovers United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2007):

Royofthe Rovers agony auntEveryone is different. Dont get too stressed about this.

It does sound to me like you have been thinking abou this for a long time. Is it that bad that it ruins your sex life?

You need to start to build your confidence up first because everyones dinga-ling is different and not all men are particuarly hairy everywhere. I dont know what treatments are out there but use them as a last resort.

Doctors often know what they are talking about, I mean you have been to 2 and they say the same thing. Think how many they have seen?

You say yourslef the length isnt the problem is is just the girth, but that sounds to me like you have matured.

Dont let this get you down, see another doctor if it makes you feel happy but honestly i dont think you have anything to worry about. Make the most of what you have and be pround of your manhood!

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