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30-35,
*ayladiann
writes:Hey...I am seventeen yrs old...(i turn 18 in 3 months), and i like a 26 year old who teaches at my school. I know this sounds so typical coming from what seems like a love stricken teenager...but the thing is i am falling i love with him and i dont know what to do...u can def tell that there is alot of chemistry between us...my mom has met him on several occasions and has remarked on it being so obvous quite alot, and she thinks he is a good guy...we look at each other all the time, and every time i glance at him he is always staring at me...we talk all the time an we have alot of the same intrests...but i just dont kno if he would ever go for me...should i tell him how i feel after i graduate or just try to forget about it all? please help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 Hi,
well there isnt such a great age gap especially when you turn 18 and he will be 26.
But he is still in a position of authority over you and that is very seductive for a lot of people, which as an ex teacher to me is unfair. A teacher would ask himself would she be interested in me if I wasnt her teacher - the answer is usually no.
So I would advise to graduate then wait several months, if you still have feelings then contact him and ask him if he would like to catch up for a chat to reminisce over the old school days. If he's interested you will know then.
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