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writes:Hi i'm 16 years old and i really like this guy thats 22, ive known him for 2 years. When ever we meet up, he always treats mewith such respect and makes me feel really good about myself.We had sex the other night and i thought he would just take me straight home but he wanted to talk to me . . .he wanted to know me, what my interests were, everything. The catch is the last time we had sex he didnt call or message me for ages (although last time he didn't just stay and talk). He messaged me today saying he wanted to see me again soon and was going to call me later but then he didn't. . . am i looking into this too much?Does he like me or am i just there for sex?Is there any chance that we will be together soon?What do you think?xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2007): I got caught up in something similar a couple of years ago. It might seem flattering that he is asking questions about your and didn't just take off after the sex, but it's really his way of luring you in and making you believe that he is interesting so that you will continue to have sex with him. "Wanting to see you" means that he wants to have sex with you. If a guy likes you for more than that, he will call when he says he will and very often and will call you for more than just getting together. My advice is to forget about this guy before you get too emotionally involved. You're 16 -- go out and have fun with friends at the movies, coffee shop, wherever. You don't need to waste your time with a like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): i think you v'e worked it out for yourself, he talked to you the first time to keep you "on side" dont be a fool, tell him to take you out to dinner or cinema or something fun and then tell him to take tou home after wards, even thought youve slept with him, tell him you want to wait to get to know him more before getting into a deep sexual relationship if you dont here from him its sex he wants if he agrees dont sleep with him for a few weeks have fun then when the times right, and you feel as hough he's truely in it for you , then sleep with him.take care and think wisely, you might get hurt now but when it all comes out in month to come it will hur even more.
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