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writes:i`m 15 and feel realy down i feel like all my friends are using me and not realy there for me,at the moment i hate my family and want to runaway.what should i do i cant go to anyone for help and just think my hole life is a waste of time.? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Awww sweety I know exactly how you feel. When I was your age and first started highschool I was too nice to me. One thing I realized is that "friends" aren't what they appear to be, they come and go but family will always be there. I know that sounds really cliche but it's just the truth I learned from personal experience. There was a point when I put "friends" before both myself and family but God knows I was wrong. I don't talk to 90% of the people I used to talk to because I learned how fake people can be. I probvaly sound like an old lady to you telling you to put your family first but im only 17(senior in highschool) and I'm learning how fake people are everyday but don't let them get to you babe remain optimistic and do what tou have to do for yourself first.( trust me) and I know what you're going throught but running away or commiting suicide(that's what it sounds like you're saying but I hope I'm crazy) is not the answer. I thought about those things a lot throughout my lifetime but although life in general may not be the perfect fairytale, it's worth living and things will get better they are for me. Im not sure what religion you are but im catholic and when I really feel down and out I talk to God and it's helped me find myself and become a better positive person. Keep yourself busy, join clubs in schol and stuff make the best of your time here on earth sweety life is short before you know it you'll be old with wrinkled skin and stuff so don't let all this unecessary minor stress cause you to get older and get grey hair before your time....well I really hope this helped sweety...xoxoxoxoxo Mrs.Charles2b
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reader, bwm1011  +, writes (11 April 2008):
Hun, I think that we all go through this type of situation at times. There are times that you are going to hate your family so much that the only thing you can think of is to leave, but when you do, you find yourself out there with nothing and all you want is your family back. Life is not supposed to be easy!! Friends will come and go and you have to understand that at your age, friends are just trying to be popular or different and most of the time the real friends get left behind. That is how you know that they are not your true friends...
What happened to make you feel this way?
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