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writes: Ive been having sex unprotected for a while about 10 times without a condom i was jue my periods last week and they came and stayed for one day i usaully have my periods for 7 days could i be pregnant im 14 years old and realy scared
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2006): Get to a teen pregnancy clinic or see your family doctor to confirm a pregnancy.
Stop having sex as you are far too young. Where is mom and dad? What is the homelife like? Don't be having sex to feel love, valued, special as having sex now to fill those needs will put you on a path where you will rely on sex to feel better...not good. Don't do it because everyone else is.
Talk to a doctor.
If you still see yourself wanting to have sex; get some birth control.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2006): 14 years old and having sex dnt take this the wrong way but i wouldnt be surpise if u are pregant!!!!! i would go 2 the doctors and get ur self checked out and if u are pregant then just think 2 ur self well its not the babys fault tht it is in my smoach its my fault see because everything u do always have consenquences
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reader, katzkitten  +, writes (7 August 2006):
 u must be so worried. i am also 14 and have contemplated sex. but the reason i turned him own was because i so badly didnt want ot get pregnant. i didnt even trust cotraception. u need to be more clued up! reasearch it on the net. pregnancy and contraception. its easy to get caught up in the momentbut you have to say no! i have before and it wasnt easy, but he understood. but 10 times! if you are pregnant and this is extremly likely u need to decide what you going to do and really find out stuff! good luck x x xEmz x x
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (2 August 2006):
 Yes, definitely a very good chance. Your body is *designed* to get pregnant, and you've given it 10 chances to do so.
What on earth was your partner thinking to have unprotected sex with you TEN TIMES?!
Never mind that now, though. I've gone through this feeling myself, and I was practically paralysed with terror that I might be pregnant. I remember what it's like, but this *isn't* the time to freeze.
So find the phone book (or go online) and look up the word "Pregnancy" in the Government pages, or look up the phrase "women's health". There will be a number you can ring and speak to someone, a woman who knows what you're going through and who has lots of experience with helping girls who are feeling exactly like you.
Just so that you know what to expect, they _won't_ ask your name, they _won't_ tell your parents, they _won't_ try to insist that you do one thing or another.
The purpose of Pregnancy help-lines is to give you advice so you can make a decision about what to do next. Ask them where you can get a free, anonymous pregnancy test, then GO DO IT.
If you're pregnant, (and it is likely) you'll have more options if you find out early. Once you have the result of your test, you can decide what works for you, and you have several options, such as abortion, having the baby and keeping it, having the baby and giving it to a family who really want it, or even maybe having someone in your family help raise it.
I know it's hard to act, but you're the only one who can do anything about this. So do it now.
And, for heaven's sake, stop having sex with your boyfriend! His actions show that he only cares about himself, and feels nothing for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2006): before you go telling anyone, try to buy a pregnancy test from a drug store. this will avoid any upset and stress and will be able to help you determine if you truly are pregnant. most people i know use the e.p.t brand test and they aren't too expensive. they also come in a pack incase you aren't sure you did the first test correctly. if you find that you are pregnant, you should speak with a relative who is close to you. sometimes telling a parent isn't the easiest thing to do, so maybe if you speak with an aunt or someone else. then that person could also help you break the news to your parents if you feel you need back up, so to speak. i know where you're coming from because i was in the same situation you were some years ago (I'm now 24) and that's what I did. if you live in the US it's not hard to understand why you didn't get contraception. they really need to back off of telling people to just not have sex. that's not how people are and by not telling the public about different methods of contraception this is the result. perhaps you can start to go on the pill. if you visit a planned parenthood clinic, they will be able to supply you with them for free if you don't have the money to purchase them. i hope all goes well for you and that I was able to be of some help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2006): Theres a high chance that you are pregnant! You may have ot away with unprotected sex once, but 10 times is an extremely high chance of you being pregnant. you need to get to your doctor asap. He or she will provide you with some abortion pills if it was less than 10 weeks since you had the first round of unprotected sex, they could also refer you to an abortion clinic. they will give you advice on hoe to avoid this in the future. You should never have unprotected sex again. Go on the pill, which protects against pregnancy, and ALWAYS use a condom, they are the only method of contraception that protect against pregnancy AND STI's.
Tsuki.
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reader, bonym +, writes (2 August 2006):
 I am sorry to say this but have you no understanding of contraception better still have you know understanding of morality? You are 14, why are you having sex. Anyway, me ranting at you wont help, what you need to do is get a pregnancy kit and or seek medical advice, that way you will know for sure. Please think carefully next time, you are too young and you need to understand that unprotected sex may lead to pregnancy. xXx
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reader, ickle-miss-sunshine +, writes (2 August 2006):
 hiya, i know it must be hard to tell someone or i bet you will be panicing but if i was you i would tell your boyfriends what has happened and then get hus support. tell someone in your family as it is them who wil support you all the way with what ever dessicsions you make. also best friends are always there but make sure you can trust them. last but the least your docter if you are too scared go with one of your frineds and get perfession help. :) stick in there!
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