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writes:I am 14 and I have a crush on this 18 years old guy. He is major cute and hot. I've known him since kindergarten. My parents know him well, too. Last week, he told me he really really likes me and want to go out with me. I want to go out but I'm not sure if it is okay because I never dated before.What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): he's after one thing sex - get real its against the law anyway and im afraid to say that the age gap between 14 and 18 is huge at the present in time no matter how mature you may think you are. Ask your self this why does he want to go out with a 14 yr old at his age. Most guys are humping like rabbits - Use your head and stay clear. the power relationship between the two of you would be very high and leaning heavily on his side. Go and find people nearer your age be friends and have fun and communicate, This 18yr old would only want to communicate with his dick dont let this be your first experience with dating someone it would just lead to tears
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reader, kenny  +, writes (17 August 2007):
 Its all very well him being cute and hot but at the end of the day you are 14 and he is 18. Normally 4 years is not a great deal in relationships, but in this case it is a massive gap because you fall under the age of consent. He could get into serious trouble if anything were to happen between the pair of you, even jail.
I would wait a couple of years at least until it becomes legal.
Good luck x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 August 2007):
 I wouldn't do it. If you guys really hit it off the romance can't go anywhere because it is illegal. Your boyfriend is risking jail time. Endangerment of a minor, statutory rape, contributing to the delinquency of a minor....it doesn't matter whether you want to be with him or not, he still goes to jail. He's nuts to risk it.
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