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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey im 11 and i have a girlfriend but she wont kiss me on her own. Her friends have to convince her.My best friend's girlfreind will kiss him.I dont know if im doing something wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): hi well your problem is she wont kiss you mabey she is more shy than you think make her more comfortable around you let her no how much you like her
then slowly make your move with those lipps of yours and she might get more confident
hope this helps
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reader, Lib1 +, writes (22 August 2008):
 No! There is nothing wrong with you. She is going at a normal pace for having a boyfriend at her age. And you just need to cool your jets. She is nervous so maybe kiss her on the cheek for a little while instead. But I strongly suggest nothing more than kisses. PS Learn this at an early age... never compare your relationship to any elses. Have fun, be safe!
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (22 August 2008):
 Some girls just mature faster than others. It is very likely that your girl just isn't ready to start kissing yet. At 11, many girls are not.
If you two really like each other, just keep on being boyfriend and girlfriend. Don't push it with the kissing, but let her know that you're interested in it whenever she's ready. She'll respect you for respecting her wishes in the matter. And when the time comes, you'll both have a special treat. Relationships between people are not all about kissing or anything like that. They are about getting to know the other person as an individual ... getting to know what they like, what they don't like, and what their hopes are for the future.
At your age you have no idea where you will be ten years or five years or even one year from now. But you should treat all relationships as if they were serious and were going to last. Treat your partner with respect, and get to know her as an individual. Find out what her favorite food is, what her favorite color is, what she likes to read, and watch on TV and how she likes to spend her free time. Find things that the two of you might like to do together ... school activities you might share, for example. She's a person the same way you are a person. Understand this at a gut level. She's NOT just somebody to kiss. Treat her like a real person. Kissing will come along if you really get to know her, respect her, and LIKE her for who she is, and she gets to like you the same way.
And it probably won't take all that long. But don't you push it. Let her decide.
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