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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): okay, you have to fallow him around at school and watch him. stay at least 5 yards away, though.at recess look over at him and figure out what he is doing. go up to one of his friends that you don't know, and say you are 1 of his feiends. ask him "so, what has (your boyfriend's name) been up to, 'cause, i have'nt been at school for the past few daysand,(long pause) i need a update." there is a 50% chance he will tell you. ya gotta be cool and not shaky!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2006): Ok.. you're 10!What could your boyfriend POSSIBLY be USING you for??? Milk and cookies? Where are your parents and why aren't they monitoring what you're doing at home and online?
And if he IS trying to use you for something else... tell your parents and have them tell his parents... because he needs some counseling. How old is he anyway?
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reader, toritor567 +, writes (20 June 2006):
Well if you think that he is than just break up with him.Or ask him or try to find clues and other things that relait to that he is cheating on you.You should do what you feel is right.But always listen to my advice cause i always have good advice!
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reader, malabu barbie x3 +, writes (19 June 2006):
why what happened?? tell me about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): why do you think your boyfriends using you?
tell me the story. i can relate trust me.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (15 June 2006):
 Wait a minute, why would a ten year old have a boyfriend? My dear why are you dating at such a tender age, you are not even a teenager, you are a child, children dont date. Come on, give yourself some time to grow up first. You are way too young. xXx
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (15 June 2006):
 I think you are a little too young to be having boyfriends. If you dont like how someone is treating you leave. Try to do other things, boys will come ALOT later in life, enjoy your childhood without the need for boys, your way to young to be embarking on realtionships at this stage.
Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): Regardless of what your bf is doing (with you), if you are bothered enough by it, then he is using you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): Fantastic. Next thing you'll know, will be 5 year olds complaining that their 6 year old boyfriends don't give them enough attention and are too busy being young. [sigh] Mom?! Mom?! What is happening in this world?
[sucks thumb]
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (14 June 2006):
 Sweetheart, Why are you 10 with a boyfriend first of all? Thats way way way to young to even think of such a thing but I won't lecture you I will answer your question fairly. You know when someone is using you when you are the one doing all the giving and he is doing all the taking. When you feel used most of the time you are. Talk to your parents about this or lack there of. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): I'm not sure how to answer this. This question is extremely vague. Perhaps if you could offer more details. In what way do you think that he is using you?
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