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writes: I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago, and he now has a new girlfriend. I know he still likes/loves me but he likes his girlfriend more. He rings me sometimes when things aren't going to well between the two of them, and i know if they broke up i would have a chance with him, but i've already waited for 3 months, i'm getting impatient. I need to know, should i be trying to get over him or under him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2006): Your determination is admirable but you need to get over him. This person likes his new girlfriend more than you but you are still available to him. There is not much challenge in that. He uses you for advice and so strings you along. He is being deceitful, immature and disloyal to talk to you about difficulties with his current relationship. How would you feel if you were his girlfriend and the same was happening to you. You are being strung along and used as a safety net in case things go wrong for him. At best you are only a friend. I know I could not personally settle for the scrapings from another woman's meal. I hope you can see that you are worth more than that.
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