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If she likes me, why does she never try to contact me?

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Question - (2 October 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2007)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

K so I'm wondering why the girl I like is acting the way she is... Her friend told me that she has a crush on me, which is good, and we've only met once, but we ended up making out and whatnot the night we met.

So what I'm wondering is, if she likes me why doesn't she ever try to contact me? She never contacts me on the computer (which is our only way of talking, since I don't know her number and she lives outside of town), she's always gone or with a group of friends so I can never talk to her alone.

And the few times we have chatted online neither of us really knew what to say, I mean, we only met breifly once (and we were both drunk) so it's almost like talking to a stranger. But I still like her dispite that.

She isn't shy either, so any idea why she would act like this? I think maybe she could just be nervous, but I dont know.

Thanks.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007):

Women are told, even by men, not to contact the guy. Let him pursue or you'll drive him off. It's either this or she is concerned she made a mistake. Either way, you need to continue initiating the contact.

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