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writes: This guy I'm seeing has been been a jerk for the last month. I've maybe hung out with him twice! He says he still loves me but something always comes up and we can never hang out anymore. So I'm wondering if I should just play hard to get and not call him first for a while.Do you think this will work? If I ignore him, do you think he will come back to me? Or how can I make him miss me and realize I'm not going to wait around for him without saying that to him, cause that doesn't work. I tried... Reply to this Question
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (19 June 2006):
 You cant make someone miss you... they either do or they dont. Maybe he just wants a bit of space at the moment, if hes got a few things going on that need sorting it may just need time to do it. Men dont like to feel to closed in, so it could just be a bit of freedom that he is after. Its probly best not to play games as he might not see what your intentions are, I would think the best thing to do is to talk to him and air your concerns. He may not realise that this is bothering you quite so much. He may genuinely have his mind on other things. Let him know that you would like to spend more time with him not less, he still says he loves you, so that has to mean something right ? Relax a little talk to him and maybe try and involve yourself with some of the things he does, without crowding him too much, but just let him know how you are feeling. If he really wants to be with you he will understand, if not you will have your answer as to whether to pursue the relationship or not.
Take care and Good luck x
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