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Ideas to keep the romance alive..

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Article - (3 August 2011) 2 Comments - (Newest, 15 August 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, Daniel the love doctor writes:

Are you lacking romance in your relationship? Are there any work problems getting in the way? If you've talked about it with your man and you haven't noticed any significant changes, you may have to take some initiative.

Here's what you can do:

1. Plan ahead. If your man comes home later than you from work, you have some time to plan a romantic night. Set up a candlelit dinner, send the kids over to a babysitter/relative house (if you have kids), and dress up in sexy lingerie. When he get home, sit him down by the table and give him a nice shoulder rub/foot massage while you ask him about his day.

**Keep the conversation light and positive and treat him to a relaxing and enjoyable romantic evening.

2. Be Spontaneous. If he gets home before you or you noticed that he's too tired when he gets home, you may have to think outside of the box. Show up at his job during his lunch break and have a small picnic area set up in a park, or just take a walk in the park and talk. Let him know how much you love him and how he makes you feel. Make him breakfast in bed, purchase two tickets to go on a cruise and take a trip to Hawaii, The Caribbean, etc. Think creatively and do whatever you can to make sure that you both are spending quality time together.

Show him how much you appreciate him by taking some initiative. If you use these ideas often, you can make your relationship more exciting and romantic.

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A male reader, Daniel the love doctor United States +, writes (15 August 2011):

Daniel the love doctor is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Daniel the love doctor agony auntI agree Mavuyi. The title of this article was supposed to have "ladies" written before it. Therefore it was intended for women. But I will post an article for the guys as well on how they could spice up the relationship on their end. Thanks again for the comment.

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A female reader, mavuyi South Africa +, writes (15 August 2011):

mavuyi agony auntWhy do you always have to say*him* this must be a two way street.

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