I yelled about his new internet acquaintance although I had split up with him as he was emotionally abusive. I feel stupid for calling him, how do I change this?

I can't get over how I called my ex (that I broke up with) a few weeks ago yelling at him to leave me alone because I didn't believe that he would even though I told his friends to tell him to leave me alone. (After I broke up with him about a month ago he kept calling/texting/mailing me things and it was driving me nuts!) Then, I started getting mad and asked him why he had all these new younger girls on his myspace page that had like nothing on. He just said why would I care since I broke up with him and that they were probably wearing halloween outfits. So what! Anyway, sure enough, a few days after I called him and told him off he tried to add me as a myspace friend. I called again furious, because now he had more girls on there and wrote something like how he was free at last on his page! After telling him off a second time, we haven't spoken for about 2 weeks-thank God! But, I have saw his myspace page about a week ago (shouldn't have looked) and the girl that had practically nothing on in the picture wrote a comment on his wall saying that she hoped he got back to new york alright (he was in Florida for awhile). Do you think he just met up with her again just to piss me off because he knew that I thought she looked slutty? How can I get over how I feel stupid that I ever called him and yelled about a new girl on his "friends" list when I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive to me? How do I get over feeling so stupid for doing that?

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