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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:this is complicated, but, i was with my bf for a year and eight months and we had a fantastic time together, he told me his ex gf, his first love who he was with for a year cheated on him and that he absolutely hates her. but he broke up with me a week ago and started talking to her again but says he doesnt want to be involved with her like that because he tried before and it never worked out. The reason why he split up with me was because i moaned and whinged too much sometimes but i really want to change that, i had a chance to get back with him the other day but i ruined it by moaning again and now he wants nothing to do with me what so ever and hates me so much. i dont know what to do to prove to him that it would be different and im not convinced that he wont get back with his ex, im heart borken so please help. even his best friends were saying how he was the happiest they have ever seen him whe he was withme and that our relationship was different to the ones he had with hs ex's, i really dont understand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): Honey if you whinged in your relationship ( if you whinged about your relationship) maybe it wasn't right for you. But then us girls whinge and moan all the time anyways if he loves you he will just have to accept that all women love to moan. You can't help havign an opinion and the person you should share your opinion with is your partner. maybe the problem is him, not you.
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