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writes: I'm in love with an unhappily married man. I had my chance with him not once but twice. But I had just gotten out of a bad marriage and I was not ready for the kind of relationship that he wanted. He was ready to settle down and have children and he is a very loving kind of guy that would've made a good husband but since I was not sure what I wanted I let him go. It's been two years now and he has been married for a little over a year and is completely not happy. He met and married her in three weeks. I've done the dating scene for awhile and have found nobody like him. I'm ready to settle down and willing to remarry and have children. But I don't know if I should tell him how I feel or to leave him alone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2005):
Obviously, you need to leave him alone.
But FYI you arent in love with him either. You are just needy and greedy
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (16 November 2005):
 You need to leave this one alone! You said that when you had your chances with him you were not ready and now that you are, you honestly think it would be fair to come in and ruin his marriage. Whether or not he is happy, is not for you to decide. You seem to fall into the "wanting what you can't have" category of people. Give him a chance to make a life with his wife, go out and find your own man.
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