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writes:I am feeling bad about my incorrect judgement. I befriended a guy who came across genuine and caring. We knew each other for about 3 weeks...talking and texting regularly. Then we became intimate. After that time he has not contacted me, even though he said he would. When i called him he said he was too busy right now and would call me when he has finished his projects. Now its been some time and still he hasnt bothered even to txt. I feel bad that I made a friend like that. My judgement was wrong and I feel used. How can I overcome these feelings?
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reader, SeanG  +, writes (5 May 2007):
Get to know someone longer than 3 weeks, e.g. 2 months before getting intimate. Its the ones that come across genuine that are sometimes rats!
Hint: Weed out the rats by suggesting to do things like going out rather than things leading to intimacy...The bad guys usually leave when they know they're not getting what they want I.e. SEX!
Get to know guys as friends first, then get to know there friends (Another indicator of what there really like), then be intimate when your sure after a few months. A nice guy likes you for who you are, so hang in there sweetness. With experience in this you will trust your judgement OK.
Your doing ok. :) Good Luck
Sean
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reader, cd206 +, writes (5 May 2007):
 Accept it that you made a mistake that most women make at some stage. At the end of the day it was a mistake. Accept it as such and move on. Like with all mistakes it will bother you for a while but you will get over it. Just use it as a lesson to be more careful in future.
CD
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