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writes: Sorry for such a long question but I really need some advice and I think you need to know the background to help me!! I'm very confused at the moment, I've been going out with my bf for 3years. We've been on and off for the last three months but decided to give it another go. We've been going out now for over 2weeks now. We hardly see each other as he works and studies and I get upset which is the reason for our on off relationship. I've only seen him once since we got back together although we talk every day.The thing is he only lives half an hour away and works 15 min away, so today I was walking by the bus stop and decided to get it to his workplace and walk him to his bus stop when he finished work. I was just trying to be romantic!! Anyway I rung when got there, asked him when he'd be finished and then asked did he want a bit of company to the bus stop, he said NO! I then rung back as I hadn't told him I was outside and told him I was and I'd wait till he was finished and walk him to his stop!He left me waiting for twenty minutes in the freezing cold, never made any attempt to kiss me or anything when he eventually left and didn't even acknowledge the effort I had made!I'm soo confused I love him to pieces and I'm really trying. Does he really not care? Why can't he make an effort?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2005): I agree with the other answers...No, he doesn't care hun. I am sorry and I understand your concern and pain. Three years is a long time. I don’t know whether you can renew your relationship with your boyfriend. I will be frank, it sounds like his heart is not with you and usually when a relationship breaks up like this it is rare for them to re-establish. Therefore, my short answer is you can reach out to him, but don’t be surprised if it doesn’t work. Instead, you might consider taking care of yourself and learn from this relationship better ways of providing the love and commitment you want, in the future. My heart is with you, dear. Take Care
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 November 2005):
 He isn't making an effort because he doesn't care. This relationship sounds pretty much over to me. I'd go looking for greener pastures and quit wasting my time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2005): No, he really doesn't care. Find someone else who will appreciate you. Drop this bum like a bad apple that he is.
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