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writes: I had fancied this guy for about 2 months and finally screwed up the courage to tell him how i felt. The he asked me out. He was me first boyfriend. We weren't going out for long, but I thought we had such a great connection, we didnt have that much in common but we seemed to just, fit. However a couple of days after being with him i found out that his best girl friend had feelings for him. This caused many aruguments, not really between me and him, more between me and my friends and him and his. So, after seeing him for only two weeks he dumped me. Of course i was upset but my mum helped me through it and i cheered up. Then, a week later i find out that him and his girl friend have started going out. I hav gotten over this guy but it seems since finding out they are going out my confidence has plummeted. I like this other guy at school now, and before i would of been able to talk to him but now i cant even seem to look at him. We dont really talk much but today he asked me a question, i felt so nervous and embarassed i just pretended i couldnt hear him.Whats going on? Why i am so scared around guys?
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reader, Confuddled +, writes (12 May 2006):
 you are just hurt... you will heal... you have to get the confidence to talk this guy you like or you will be dwelling on your ex for too long... its unhealthy...you need to move on and make yourself happy... just try it... you only live once... be brave...ask this guy you like to do something with you...start talking to him or something... you have to move on... you really do... honestly... just have fun with them... don't think negatively... try it out! good luck :) i hope i helped some!
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