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writes:i'm 15 in high school. ok theres this guy on my bus, and i really really like him. i never felt this way about anyone before. i just can't stop thinking about him. we talk and text and we're pretty good freinds. i told a couple of my friends that i liked him, but a lot of people think i like him, which i lie that i don't. its so hard to keep this feeling inside me. i wanna tell him that i like him, but i don't wanna ruin are friendship and make things awkward. he had this girlfriend, but broke up with her a while ago. now he likes this girl whos a year older then us. i liked him for a while now, but i don't know what to do. i was thinking of telling him how i felt about him, but i don't know. i think he might know i like him, but i'm not sure. i noticed that we've been acting different around each other lately and thats why i think he might know that i like him. i don't know though. plus its the end of the year, so i don't know if its a good idea to do anything that might change are friendship. so someone please help, i don't know if i should tell him that i like him or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): If you know that he likes someone else and not you, then don't tell him. there's no point in risking the friendship when you know that tellign him won't do you any good.
If you think there's a chance he likes you, then tell him. You'll never be satisfied fully until you get his potnetial feelings out in the open.
*note*
I know that in reality, two people feeling differently about each other shouldn't ruin a friendship, but since we're referring to high school here, i'm aware that at this age, this would make things awkward.
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