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writes:Hello everyone. Maybe you can help me. I have a friend that I met over the net. We have gotten together a couple times. With her job, she is on the road a lot. We talk to each other regularly. She is the most unique person I have ever met. I cannot stop thinking about her. I want to be more than just a friend with her. She is in a relationship with someone that sounds like to me that is a roller coaster. Always up and down. I want to tell her my feelings, but I am afraid by saying something, it will cost me a friend. Is there anything I can do? Thanks for the help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): Just tell her how you feel, but you have have also to be open for all the answers. I guess it's not fair for her not to know coz maybe she has feelings for you too but she is not sure enough. Tell her how you feel and assure her that whatever she will say, if she was negative then nothing will change you will stay her friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): I think it would be unfair to her as she is currently in a relationship. You will most probably ruin your friendship if you were to say anything at this point. If she ends the relationship she's in now, then just be there for her, you don't want to be a rebound. But let her make her own choices.
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