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30-35,
*eenageWorrier
writes:Hi, I have another problem!The boy I like-that's going fine. But this time it's another thing.I used to go out with a boy called daniel. I asked him out last October and he said yes. We went out once over a half-year period and I decided it needed to end. However, we were in the middle of some exams, so I decided now wasn't the time. Just before a science exam, he dumped me and said we could still be friends and so on.But from April-to now, we haven't spoken at all. He just totally blanks me. I'm thinking, what did I ever do? It's a bit irritating actually.A few days ago, his sister (who I am friends with) asked him (while i was there), "Do you and Megan actually talk to each other at all now?"Before I could say anything, he said, "No."She asked why, and he said, "I just don't want to."I felt a bit offended. Some people have said he's gay, which I don't have a problem with and I have told him so, and I thought we could just stay friends, but he is still blanking me.I was wondering what to do, I don't want to get back with him, but I still want to be friends. Any advice?Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): Rapustin,
Thanks, I don't really want him back but I thought we might perhaps stay friendly. I've decided this will probably never happen, I just thought it was a shame as a friend of mine is still friends with her ex.
Thanks again, it really helped.
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reader, Rapustin  +, writes (15 November 2008):
r u sure u realli want 2 be just friends coz u sound like a part of u wants him back? U know coz, i dunno, if u realli don't want him back, then 4get 'bou him, i mean totally ignorin him coz he may be doin it 2 make u sad, so don't give him dat luxury, and believe me when i say dat YOU have the right and power 2 blank him too, and always remember that u r always in control of ur emotions don't ever give any body the impression that they can hurt u, that way, when they try 2 hurt u, they flop big time ok?..
Goodluck..
pls let me know how it works out, hear?...
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