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writes:He's too busy... His wife cheated and preferred others...so did my husbands.I have "trust" issues from 2 failed marriages...they preferred others over me. I think he too is afraid to let a woman get close to him. He divorced for 27 years and me but 4.We started dating...but he has always been busy with family,work,organizations. After intimacy developing...we still only met sandwiching me between his normal routine. I felt like I was being squeezed into his already full agenda, it "felt" like slam bam..hurry eat, watch movie, etc. because I knew he was/had going to leave.I so frustrated emailed that I wanted more of his time and I was afraid of being used for Romantic Friend.He said I worried too much and he understood that I was not being given the time I deserved and he cares for me. For me to think it over...to let things cool...then we can meet and talk.We will meet on Friday...we have talked on phone but he will not answer any emails.I feel like I "rushed"...in voicing my frustration anddon't know how to undo any hurt feelings I caused. I would like to start ...all over !
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): Stop all sexual activity and go back to dating. If this man hasn't the time to romance you properly, if he has no time for you, then he will do damage to your already fragile self esteem. He may be busy, but if he's serious he needs a way of finding time for you so that you will know he cares. Think of romantic things to do outside the bedroom, and take your time to make sure this relationship is secure before you give your heart and body away again.
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