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writes:Okay question is what do you do with a relationship that you thought was all good , but then find out she is in love with another girl's husband lol, Words right from her mouth are I dont know how to explain it but I do have a kind of love for him . Aha so I talk with him about it and show some muscle beings how I have been with her for a year and always felt something was out of place with it he said he told her he wasnt going to leave his wife and 6kids for her before I even started dating her, so here we are a year later and she still says she loves him and but also loves me? I have been loyal showing my love only to her even raising her baby with her that isn't mineI just spent alot of money for our fun time vacation in 12 days after all this I hear this shiz let me say I have been thru all the crazy ups and downs already with her but this one just hit me in the ballz. I just wish she could somehow see the light that this dude she has a crush on has 6kids and told her no lmao well I have been doing some soul searching and I cant bring myself to up and cheat on her or kinda get another girl to call me up so I can turn the tables for once and let her have a taste of how it feels Im not that much of an a-hole but it did cross my mind I just feel like saying get your head straight and let me know as I leave.. problem is she is in my house lol so I cant just put her and her baby on the streetsEither way my trust is broken atm in her and I really feel like once again flying free after all the stuff we have been thru and everything I have done it is complete bs that this happend.any advice you can give from this wall of text is welcome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): Agree totally with Uncle Phil on this one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): You have my absolute admiration for treating another man's baby as your own, but I don't think I could put up with this situation for very long.
I appreciate you don't want to turn the pair of them out of your house, but I think that's what you're going to have to do sooner or later unless she has an attitude adjustment. I think I'd tell her to start looking for alternative accommodation. Give her a target eviction date, perhaps 2 months hence which should give her enough time to find somewhere else.
Also, I wouldn't feel very much like taking her away on a vacation. Could you just go on your own and maybe get a refund? I'd certainly be considering that. If not, could you take someone with you who would appreciate it?
Perhaps all she needs is a clear vision of what she and her baby stand to lose. If you let her get away with this she'll walk all over you, so stand firm on any decisions you make.
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