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writes:hey, in the past ive had bad relationships and now ive met some1 that im kinda seeing i guess you could call it and when i talk to him and when im with him i feel great and when im not doing those things i think about him. i know its sad i guess but i just got it bad. the problem is that i dont know where its going and he goes away for 2 months soon and most guy mates i have asked have said that because they wouldnt be realy with the girl they would probably be unfaithfull. i know its unfair to assume that he would too but if i knew where the relationship was going then maybe i could trust him a little more. and it doesnt help that the guy hes going away with only thinks of 1 thing and cirtainly cant be trusted. and i dont particularly want to have the where do you think this is going chat jsut yet because he might get scared off and think im trying to get seriouse. ive met some1 i think is a good 1 but im worried. please help amiee xXx Reply to this Question
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 June 2006):
 dear Amiee its never too soon to have "the chat" especialy when one is going away for a long period of time i really think you should have a talk with him ask him honestly what he wants from this relationship and does he intend to find someone where he is going i'm not saying get all full on but just an honest adult conversation if he cares for you at all then he shouldn't find this too difficult
i hope he will give you the answers you need but i really don't advize things left insaid you'll only tear yourself apart while his away
good luck hunni keep me posted contact me direct if you need anything else xxx
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reader, sibaan +, writes (8 June 2006):
 i think you should let him go and dont say anything and if he gets with someone else then it wasnt ment to be. if he doesnt and he phones you and misses you then you know that its meant to be. maybe he'll come back and ask you out properly...
you have to take a chance and hope for the best.
good luck!
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